Vaginal Stimulation the G- (Grafenberg) spot, named for the physician credited with identifying it (though some sex researchers are still skeptical that the G-spot exists), is located on the upper wall of the vagina toward the stomach, about a third of the way in. To locate your G-spot, use a finger or two (being careful not to scratch yourself if you have long fingernails) to make a come hither motion and rub gently. Many women find that as they become more aroused they need to use firmer pressure. At the point of strong arousal, some women can feel an area of tissue under their fingers enlarge and become harder.
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